Polite Society

Much is made in college-age Christian circles of "men being gentlemen". We, as Christians, are supposed to distinguish ourselves from the world by our exemplary conduct and respectfulness. Being a gentleman towards girls is definitely a worthwhile form of social politeness, and I think most guys, myself included, could do better in that regard. Young women are also prevailed upon to follow a set of social norms more respectful of both themselves and others than the norms of the world.

However, politeness should not stop at inter-gender relations. Guys who will open the door for a girl and give her a seat on the train but lack respect for older men, or are rude and pushy with kids, are not worthy of commendation. Likewise many similar scenarios. Politeness should not be reserved for select groups - in this case, members of the opposite sex our own age - but should be extended to everyone, regardless.